Gone are the days when homosexuality was a taboo and being so was looked down upon as inferiors. People are coming up with their gender choices and they are even not shy to declare their sexual priority towards the same sex.
Attraction is a curious thing. Hard to define and even more difficult to control, it can be a precarious process that requires a bit of work to do right. Read on if you want to get your hooks into a person of the same sex. This article will teach you how to work a room, and keep your cool on your adventure toward love.
1. Communicate through jewelry and clothing. The international symbol for the gay and lesbian community is the rainbow. Purchase a belt, jewelry or other accessory to communicate to potential romantic partners that you are openly active in the gay and lesbian community. Use the symbol as a springboard for other topics and interests. For example, tell a humorous story about how easy or difficult it is to find interesting gay pride clothing and jewelry, depending on your experience.
2. Go slow. When in a social environment that is not gay and lesbian specific, rely on body language and open communication to invite same sex partners. Be prepared to find that your advances may not be received. However, with an effective strategy you can work any room in a matter of minutes without ever needing to leave your seat. First, make eye contact and smile with the person of the same sex you want to know more personally. If the person mirrors this gesture, raise an eyebrow and direct your eyes to a specific location. This will encourage the person to meet you in the designated location. If he moves to that location, begin the conversation with a compliment. Express your curiosity and desire to meet him.
3. Express your desire to be in a same sex relationship. Be open and honest about your preference and interests. The more open and honest you are about your interests, the more you will find yourself able to express what you want. Like anything that defines a person, whether it be career, talent or personality, your social network will begin to widen as others come to know your interests and refer to you by those interests. This will create a chain of communication that speaks on your behalf when others are talking randomly and catching up on each other. Who knows, someone may mention you and then be reminded that another person, the same sex as you, may be a perfect match.
4. Visit gay and lesbian bars and beach resorts. Have a sense of humor and open yourself to the fun of dating. Be confident as you meet new people and explore your sexuality. Remember that attraction is a magnet that builds off the force of two people. So if you find that a person is just not that in to you, smile and then move on. The important thing to remember is that you catch the eye of the next potential romantic partner.
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