You are into a serious relationship and you want to make her your life partner. You love her like anything and you can go to any extent for her, but when it comes to asking for her hand from her parents, you feel nervous and find it difficult to gather courage to meet them and asking them “I want to marry your daughter.”
You should learn how to impress your girlfriend’s parents if you are really serious on taking your girl home forever. First impression is the last impression, so you need to work hard on few things.
Homework:
You give importance to your exams and interview, in the same way meeting with her parents is equally important. A day before an exam or interview, you do homework, similarly, do homework in advance for this task too. Prepare a list of sensible questions you can ask her parents and cool answers of some common questions they might ask you.
Impress with your dress:
Groom yourself well before meeting them. Take shower, get a fresh hair cut, trim your nails, shave your beard, dress smartly but casual, make sure that your dress is neat and clean. Remember, looks do matter.
Says Rahul Raj, “I believe looks do matter. I am not saying that you should necessarily be good looking, but you can groom yourself by atleast dressing nicely and neatly. Appearing before your girl`s parents is the first thing, and first impression is the last impression.”
Arrive on time:
This is very important that you reach there on time. They will get annoyed for sure if you keep them waiting.
Be confident:
Confidence is what you need at this moment of time. Be confident, give her dad a firm handshake. Greet her mother, touch her feet or give her a hug.
Make good conversation:
This is the most important factor. If you want to get a green signal from her parents, you need to make a good impressive conversation with them. Talk to them in a friendly manner, maintaining decency and manners. Tell about yourself, talk about your family, work, interests, hobbies etc. Ask them about their likes and dislikes. Be a good listener, and listen carefully to what they talk.
Says Animesh Doloi, 24, who works in an MNC, “These are very delicate matters. You need to be extra careful when you`re meeting with her parents for the first time. When I met with Saloni`s (Animesh`s wife) mom and dad for the first time, I was a bit nervous but I met them with confidence. I had a job in hand, I was earning good, and I was well-behaved while meeting them, what else a girl`s parents need. I got a green signal in the first meeting itself, they were impressed.”
Farewell:
When it`s time for you to leave, be polite and humble. Thanks them for inviting you, tell them that you had an excellent time with them, make them feel that you enjoyed in their company. Give hugs, greetings with a gentle smile on your face.
Well, don`t worry! If you`ll follow all these mantras, you`ll definitely leave a positive impression on her parents. Good luck!